Guides

Thoughtful tools for self-understanding and alignment.

These guides are designed for people who want to explore themselves with honesty and care — without forcing change or performing insight.

Each one offers a different entry point, depending on what you’re navigating right now. Both are self-guided, reflective, and grounded in embodied awareness.


Open to Self

A self-discovery guide for navigating open relationships with clarity and integrity.

Open to Self is a digital guide for people exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or open relationship structures who want to stay connected to themselves while relating openly with others.

Rather than offering rules or scripts, this guide focuses on internal alignment — helping you understand your emotional landscape, energetic boundaries, and relational patterns so your relationships can be shaped from self-trust rather than fear.

Inside, you’ll explore:

  • identifying needs and boundaries without over-performing
  • emotional regulation and nervous system awareness in relationships
  • communicating from self-connection rather than reactivity
  • aligning your relationships with who you actually are

This guide is gentle, reflective, and meant to meet you where you are — whether you’re newly curious or already practicing non-monogamy.

Map to Self

A grounded introduction to the Enneagram as a tool for self-understanding.

Map to Self is a clear, compassionate primer on the Enneagram; designed to help you recognize patterns, motivations, and behaviors without reducing yourself to a type.

Rather than using the Enneagram as a label, this guide treats it as a map: a way to orient yourself with more awareness, curiosity, and choice.

Inside, you’ll explore:

  • the structure and purpose of the Enneagram
  • how patterns form and why they persist
  • motivation, fear, and desire beneath behavior
  • using self-understanding to support growth, not identity lock-in

This guide is especially supportive if you’ve felt curious about the Enneagram but resistant to being boxed in.

Self-Alignment Bundle

Two guides. One integrated path to clarity and coherence.

This bundle includes both Open to Self and Map to Self — designed to work together as a foundation for deeper self-understanding and more authentic relationships.

While each guide can be used on its own, together they offer a fuller picture:

  • how your internal patterns shape your choices
  • how self-awareness supports relational integrity
  • how alignment begins internally and ripples outward

Whether you’re navigating open relationships, exploring personal growth, or simply wanting to understand yourself more clearly, this bundle provides both orientation and application — without pressure or performance.